Spotted heavn

A while back I spent a lovely day at the Abbortsford Convent in Melbourne. Its an old convent given to the community and houses an array of yummy delights. Artists in residence work their wares in glass, metal and clay. You can even watch them create amazing stuff like glass vases and ornaments. It 's where Brendan and I got to know each other over the delicious food at Lentils as Anything – a cafe where  you can sample the fine vegetarian cuisine and pay what you feel the meal was worth - a very down to earth kind of place.

We meet some friends there and it just happens to be the weekend of the makers market. I'm over the moon! I love markets and after perusing all of the amazing hand made stuff I am drawn to a stall. It stands like a golden beacon calling out to me “I will answer all your nappy prayers”. There in front of me is a modern nappy stall!


A tall earthy woman greets me and explains how her modern cloth nappies work. They are a cloth nappy but they are in the shape of a disposable. They look like the Weehugger pants with buttons on the outside to do the nappy up. However they do not have any inserts as they are all in one.  Just like a regular cloth nappy you use one at a time and wash them after use. I really want to try one out and even though I am getting a little slim on cash I cannot resist buying one . She makes me a deal and I choose a wonderful black and white dalmatian patterned pair. They cost me $25 (this is with a discount too) soooooooo expensive but I feel good supporting a local (offsetting the guilt of digging into my dwindling money funds). I eagerly rush home to try them out and Sebby looks snug in his spotted new nappy.

So now it has been a little while and I'm sad to say that the beautiful spotty nappy sits on the shelf most days. I think the concept is good – an all in one nappy that is the equivelent of a cloth nappy, however it is so bulky that it takes forever to dry. So I use it once and then have to wait a few days while it dries out on the line until I can use it again. You would need a heap of these nappies just to get through the day. At $25 a pop you are looking at a really expensive option (seeing that a 12 pack of cloth nappies costs the equivelent of one modern nappy its hard to justify purchasing these new improved wonders).

I do feel that I am getting closer to a better solution than the original cloth nappy though. So the search continues...

A day in the life of a nappy cleaner

My day starts like this: 6.30 to 7am feed Seb, burp Seb, change his nappy, put him on the mat to wriggle around and stare avidly at the louvers – they seem to be so interesting! Then check for signs of sleepiness and settle him to sleep. This is the cycle of my life and is getting to be pretty predictable unless I happen to miss the signs of sleepiness and Sebby gets too overtired and then its a bit harder to get him to settle down for sleep. I made the mistake of nipping over to the neighbours house for about 10 minutes when I thought seb had drifted off into a fitfull sleep. Oh how I was wrong. On my return I found him howling his little lungs out and I felt remorseful. How could I be so cruel! From then on I couldn't settle him to sleep so he missed an entire sleep cycle and was content to sit in the little swing while I made dinner. There was not one chance he would fall into a blissful sleep. Note to self – be a better mother!

Sad boy :(

Besides this ritual I have one other in my daily life – nappy cleaning. This is an all consuming necessity that cannot be put off or wait a day or two. First I collect the nappies in a bucket with a lid throughout the day. Once I have a bucket full I commence poo cleaning. This consist of using a dish brush to scrape the poo off the cloth nappies under running water. As I am trying to be water concious I have the water going at a trickle only but its hard to say how much I really am using here. I estimate around 5 to 10 litres depending on how many nappies I have to rinse. I collect all the liners or disposable compostable nappies in another bucket and fill it with water to help them start breaking down, then they are put into my compost the next day – mmmm looks like brown pooey soup!

Nappy Station - 2 buckets for soaking, eco nappy soaker, bench full of nappies and accessories, nappy cleaning brush, the most essential item: rubber gloves!

Nappies all ready for little Sebs bum - folded cloth nappies, microfiber nappies, nappy covers, extra towels for burping and changing, massive role of nappy liners, disposable nappy inserts, barrier creams

The rinsed nappies go back into a big bucket with some Eco brand nappy whitener that as far as I can ascertain consists mostly of Bicarbonate of Soda to help clean off those lovely bright browny yellow poo stains. Leave these to soak overnight and pop them in the wash the next day and hey presto I have lovely white nappies again! They hang on the line like white sails in the wind. One of the maternity nurses remenisced with me recently about her white cloth nappies flapping on the line and how much she missed the sight. I almost invited her over just so she could get her fix of cloth nappy heaven.

So there you  have it, a day in the life of a nappy cleaner :)

Weehugger Nappy

Weehugger Nappy

Review of Nappy

• Insert either paper disposable pad or cloth nappy folded up
• Can only use the nappy once or twice before it needs to be washed or dried out before you can use it again
• May leak around the legs if using the nappy on a new born baby

Nappy Rash Blues and on the hunt for the Perfect Nappy

Well the inevitable occurred – Seb developed nappy rash... Bummer, I was really hoping I could avoid it. When it didn't clear up after a couple of days I began to panic. What was I doing wrong? Shouldn't a little rash like that clear up pretty quickly if I kept the barrier cream on him? It was getting worse not better and an irrational fear was building inside me. I realised I had to take a structured approach to the situation and combat the issue with a multi stepped approach.

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   Air out his little bum every day for as long as possible – this equated to nappy free time with his nether regions basking in what ever Melbourne sunshine I could get every day.
2. 
   
   Thick applications of Pawpaw cream, aloe vera and sudocrem every nappy change
3. 
   
   The use of nappy liners with every nappy
4. 
   
   I even purchased some Eenee compostable disposable nappies so that I could use them at night.

Well im happy to report that I seem to be on top of the problem for the moment The disposable nappies have helped because Seb goes for longer periods at night with a wet nappy and the paper in them really draws the moisture away. I think they play a vital part in reducing the effects of nappy rash. The nappy liners also seem to be doing a good job too as they protect him from the wet cloth nappy.

Does the perfect new age nappy exist?

I purchased the Weehugger pants and unfortunately I was pretty disappointed with them. They are not as sturdy as I thought they would be and they don't seem to fit Seb well enough around his legs and as a consequence they leaked all over the place the first time I used them. I also purchased a bamboo nappy cloth which is basically a strip of bamboo cloth that folds up to fit into the Weehuggers. However it was useless on its own as it wasn't thick enough to hold all the wee and poo in the pants.

I have experimented since purchasing them trying to work out the best inserts to put into them. I now use the microfiber nappies folded up in them or the bamboo pad with an extra disposable pad insert on top to soak up all the wee. This works better however the design of the pants is not that great either. At each end there is a fold of material where the pad or cloth nappy folds under and each time I use the pants on Seb this strip of material gets wet and I have to let it dry out or wash it before I can re-use the pants. This means I would need to purchase about 8 to 10 pants at $28 each so that I had enough to use through out the day. At the very least I would need about 6 pairs of pants to get through the day and I would be constantly washing them every day. Not quite as good as I thought they would be.

I am tempted to purchase another brand to see how they differ and if they are any better but at the same time Seb will only be using this size for another 2 months or so and then I will have to purchase another 6 to 10 of them. This would be a pretty expensive option. I wonder if I can get any second hand ones from Ebay? The Baby Beehinds seem to work just as well and the large terry toweling nappy with the pilcher is definitely the best at stopping any leaks as there is so much there to soak everything up..

The Eenee compostable disposable nappies also leak at night when Seb does a lot of wees through the night. I have used a disposable pad to boost up the nappy and this has worked well too in reducing leakage. I'm still to come up with what I am going to use once he progresses to the next size. I don't really want to use the large terry toweling nappies with pilchers as they are just too large and bulky and increase the risk of nappy rash. So I'm still investigating the best options out there. I have already spent almost $450 on nappies and accessories. When will the spending stop!?? I just feel I haven't found the best option for me yet so I guess the spending will continue until I find it or my money runs out... :)  

Welcome little Seb!

Finally the day came when little Seb arrived into the world. I really know now that you cannot be prepared 100% for labour and in the end you just have to go with it. I can say for sure that it wasn't what I expected even though I was sure I had the right tools to use to help distract me from the pain – in the end those tools were almost irrelevant. Thank goodness for my support team my fantastic partner and my wonderful mum, without them I would not have lasted as long as I did – it was a life changing event that is for sure.

So now the real adventure starts and I have begun to explore the different options in nappies in the first few days of Seb's life. I took to the hospital the disposable nappies I had purchased awhile ago from an eco shop. They are the bamboo brand which I found out later from Kim at Chris's dial a nappy that they are no better than a standard nappy in the sense of being more environmentally friendly as they generally have the same amount of non-biodegradable material in them as a standard nappy. But I thought “I have them I may as well use them”. The hospital used cloth nappies but they were different from the ones I had purchased. They were thinner and not terry toweling material. When folded in the kite fold they fitted nicely around my baby and over the top the hospital would use plastic snibs.

When I got home I started to use the cloth nappies I had. I found that the terry toweling nappies are quite bulky and hard to use with the baby beehind pants that I had purchased. So I am now using the terry toweling nappies with the pilchers I purchased from Big W. They work pretty well except that they make my child look like a frozen chicken from the waste down as they are so bulky!

The Kite Fold

The microfiber nappies that I purchased are a little difficult to fold into the kite fold as they are not square but a rectangle. I am folding them in the kite fold and they are a little out of shape but they are better to use with the baby beehind pants as they are more compact. Either way I use the nappies I am finding that they hold a lot of moisture close to Seb's body and so at night he goes for longer periods with a wet nappy next to his bottom increasing the risk of nappy rash, which thankfully I haven't experienced so far.

The Kite Fold

One thing that I didn't count on was how I would feel after giving birth and I have to say that this is probably the biggest obstacle to using cloth nappies. I did heaps of reading about the birth and birthing skills to be prepared on the day but I neglected to read up about how I would feel after the birth. Some of the midwives at the hospital would mention certain things like “you may feel feverish when your milk comes in”. Well can I just say that this was a major understatement! My milk coming in felt like I had been hit by a truck!

Feeling pretty sore and recovering from the marathon of birth with a million hormones racing around my body I was faced with breast feeding and nappy changing every 2 to 3 hours. Thank god for my mum! In the first week and a half she has soaked and washed every nappy that Sebastian used. She fed us and cleaned for us and I could just focus on sleep and feeding. My house is immaculate and I'm a little worried that it will deteriorate into a chaotic mess when she leaves. But at least she has given me the time to explore and use cloth nappies the way I wanted to and not only that she has done all the washing with grace and ease. I am forever eternally grateful to her!

So today I have ordered 2 weehugger nappy pants with 40 biodegradable inserts. Over the last week I have almost used all the disposable bamboo nappies that I purchased and the Eenee compostable disposable nappy sample pack that I also purchased a while ago. The Eenees are great! They work just like a normal disposable nappy and using the velcro belt that comes with them to do them up isn't too difficult. If I could start again from Seb's birth I would definitely use the disposable compostable Eenee nappies while I was recovering from birth. You really need a stress free option at this stage and disposables really are the way to go. However saying that I haven't used the nappy pants with the disposable inserts yet so they could be just as good. I will let you know in my next post how I get along with them.

As I have only used 4 compostable disposable nappies I have put these into my compost to degrade. The ammonia in the wee should help break them down and activate my compost a bit more.

Anyway I must dash, little Seb is waking up ready for his next meal...

Eco mum :)